Dr Sarju Patel
Dr Sarju Patel

From tolerance to truly knowing one another

5 March 2026

From tolerance to truly knowing one another, what faith and belief can teach medical education about difference

This morning, I joined Voice of Islam Radio Breakfast Show for a conversation about diversity, dignity, and what it really takes to prepare future doctors to serve communities that are richly varied in culture, faith, language, and lived experience.

A theme that kept returning is one that sits across many faith traditions and belief systems, diversity is not a problem to manage, it is a responsibility to engage with. Many faiths, and many ethical worldviews, emphasise human dignity, justice, compassion, and the duty to truly understand one another, not simply to coexist politely. When you place those principles alongside clinical practice, they become more than moral ideals, they become a framework for safer, fairer care.

The real gap is not tolerance, it is understanding

In my experience, most medical students do not struggle with basic tolerance. They can be polite, neutral, and professional. The harder leap is moving from polite neutrality to genuine understanding, and that gap is often widest when a student’s lived experience has been relatively narrow.

This is where an honest conversation about bias matters. We all carry assumptions shaped by family, community, culture, class, faith, gender, and previous encounters with healthcare. If that default lens is never recognised and examined, students can mistake their norms for universal norms, or assume their interpretation of the world is the correct one.

In practice, the gap shows up in predictable ways.

Students may treat everyone the same, believing sameness equals fairness, but sameness can erase meaningful differences in trust, health literacy, stigma, language, family dynamics, and day to day constraints. Care can end up technically correct but generic, and sometimes ineffective.

When unsure, students may retreat to biology, leaning heavily on guidelines and physiology while sidestepping social and psychological realities. Yet those realities often determine whether a person can disclose concerns, engage with treatment, or follow a plan safely.

With limited exposure, cultural learning can become a checklist, a set of rules about groups. It can look like competence, but it flattens individuals into imagined templates and misses the person in front of you.

Students may also assume trust, without appreciating how fear of judgement, past discrimination, and historical exploitation can shape what patients share, how safe care feels, and whether someone quietly disengages.

Many faith traditions, and secular ethics too, point us back to the same practical stance, disciplined curiosity, deeper listening, and humility. In clinical terms that means shifting from, I know what you nee to, help me understand what matters to you, and how your context shapes your choices.

Seeing people first, before labels, accents, or assumptions

In healthcare, unconscious bias is not an abstract concept. It can influence the quality of communication, the interpretation of symptoms, the credibility granted to patients, and ultimately outcomes. So, the question becomes, how do we train students to see people first.

There are three practical layers medical education can work with.

1.      Selection, admit for values, not only grades
Structured multiple mini-interviews and situational judgement tasks can test respect, fairness, listening, and accountability, including scenarios where applicants respond to difference, challenge a biased remark, or negotiate care while respecting patient values. This does not guarantee character, but it reduces the risk of selecting people who cannot live the principle of equal dignity in practice.

2.      Exposure, make diversity normal, not occasional
If students only encounter diverse patients in rare, high stakes situations, stereotypes can harden rather than soften. What changes this is sustained, longitudinal community contact, early placements in general practice, mental health, refugee and asylum health services, disability services, palliative care, and settings where faith and belief shape decisions. When these experiences are then reinforced in academic sessions, diversity becomes familiar, understood, and respected rather than treated as an exception.Repetition matters, because behaviours that protect dignity must endure under pressure, they cannot disappear when time is tight and stress is high.

3.      Role modelling, do as I do, not do as I say
What educators tolerate becomes what students learn. If staff do not challenge biased language, if they excuse it as banter, if they do not examine their own assumptions, students absorb that as the real curriculum. If we want graduates who practise with dignity, educators must model that dignity consistently.

However, there is also a limit we should name clearly. Education can shape behaviour, set expectations, and build skill, but compassion and equal regard must be selected for, reinforced, and consistently expected.

Changing the culture, from rivalry to responsibility

Medical training often conditions students to equate worth with attainment. High stakes exams, scarce places, constant comparison, by the time students arrive at medical school many have internalised perfectionism and competition.

A mindset grounded in humility, moral responsibility, and respect for difference, values shared across many faiths and ethical traditions, can disrupt that conditioning.

Humility shifts the goal from looking flawless to becoming trustworthy, mistakes become prompts to learn and seek help, not sources of shame. Moral responsibility relocates success from self to service, peers become partners in a shared duty to become safe clinicians. Respect for difference builds psychological safety, students feel able to ask questions, admit uncertainty, and support one another.

The culture moves from, prove you are the best to, become the best you can be together, in the best interest of patients.

What I am changing in the curriculum, and why it cannot wait

I am fortunate to be in a role where I can influence curriculum design directly, and one change I am implementing is to embed health inequalities and inequities as a continuous thread across the year, rather than isolating them into one off lectures or optional resources.

Practically, this means working with each lead in the year to weave these themes into core teaching, using lived experience, patient narratives, and structured self-reflection. It means team-based learning that includes social context, not only pathology. It means teaching that highlights how bias and systems shape access and outcomes. It means reflective prompts that help students examine assumptions, language, power dynamics, and what it looks like to practise with dignity.

This is urgent because our communities are increasingly diverse, and recent years have highlighted how mistrust and disengagement can be higher among minoritised ethnic groups when people feel unseen or unheard. If students learn medicine only through a biomedical lens, they may miss what is driving illness and what is blocking care. Embedding these perspectives early makes cultural awareness part of clinical competence, not an optional extra.

Closing reflection

If we take seriously the shared faith and ethical idea that every person has inherent dignity, then medical education must do more than teach students to be polite around difference. It must train them to recognise their own lens, to listen with discipline, to build trust deliberately, and to practise in ways that protect dignity in every encounter.

That is not a soft add on to clinical training. It is clinical competence, and it is patient safety.